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Why marriage is an outdated practice

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Whats's the real point of marriage anyway? Why on earth do some people find their identity in a dumb ring around their finger
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It's all mostly pressure from family and society. I believe in being life partners rather than rushing to prove a point to everyone
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Bleh! Marriage L-)
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It's just a piece of paper. If you really love and respect each other, that's what matters. No need to be rushing to the altar just because people are getting married.
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I just don't see the point in it, really. If the two of you love one another, and know that you are going to be together for the rest of your life anyway, I don't see the need for the big White Wedding. Having that ring on your finger, or being Mr and Mrs Somebody, is not going to determine your love for one another, or somehow, make it more real than it was before you got married.
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People have been living together for the longest time and it is accepted by society. You get to live together as man and wife without the hassle of a divorce when the relationship fizzles.
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Divorce statistics are at 50%. I don't need to be another statistic. I don't need to get married to be happy with someone. A wedding ring doesn't guarantee he'll be there for me forever and that we won't separate. I'd rather spend the money for a wedding on a business or a home.
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I find the process of getting married tedious. All the scheduling, rehearsals, meetings and the spending can be so impractical. It's hard that you're busy enough as it is with your life but to do all this in a short time is just crazy. Spending all that time and effort for just one big day is very impractical.
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It's expensive and not really worth the emotional and mental stress. I wouldn't want to waste my time on dreaming of the perfect wedding and spending all that just to experience that special day that may not even last a lifetime. I know I'm a cynic but that's reality.
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The brotherhood and passionate satisfaction related with customary marriage are progressively done without in our general public for practices, for example, dwelling together and serial monogamy. which give these results without their going with social duties.
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I respect people who want marriages but sometimes you question the purpose of marriage. You can have all the perks of being married without the ring. It's just a legality to bind two people together for the rest of their lives. But do they actually stay together forever?
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I don't think marriage is outdated. My parents have been married for thirty two years and it's an inspiration to find somebody that I'd spend my life with. It's just a testament that in this modern world love and marriages can last.
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Marriage is likewise customarily established in religion, yet society is progressively mainstream while at the same time enveloping an assortment of religious perspectives and societies, and relational unions and associations that have no roots in religious conviction or culture.
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People do not respect marriage anymore maybe because they see it so often in society and in celebrities.
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People do not respect marriage anymore maybe because they see it so often in society and in celebrities.
I agree. I am guilty of this too. Twice divorce. Marriage really isn't what it's used to. People don't want to try harder anymore. It's hard to stay married to somebody who doesn't want to fight for your marriage too.
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I agree. I am guilty of this too. Twice divorce. Marriage really isn't what it's used to. People don't want to try harder anymore. It's hard to stay married to somebody who doesn't want to fight for your marriage too.
True. One of the reasons I held off getting married until I made sure to put him through the worst kinds of hell first. haha cruel but at least we are still married 20 years after.
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People do not respect marriage anymore maybe because they see it so often in society and in celebrities.
True. Celebs get divorced like it's part of their workout routine. Ten years in Hollywood is a lifetime and overnight marriages are normal.
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Marriage used to be sacred but now it's just for show. It's so tiring planning for one day in your life and you'll never know how many times you'll still get married. If you don't get everything right on your first wedding, you can always get married again to someone else next time.
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Marriage used to be sacred but now it's just for show. It's so tiring planning for one day in your life and you'll never know how many times you'll still get married. If you don't get everything right on your first wedding, you can always get married again to someone else next time.
I agree.
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True. One of the reasons I held off getting married until I made sure to put him through the worst kinds of hell first. haha cruel but at least we are still married 20 years after.
Hahaha! Good for you and him!
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