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What’s more important: looks or personality?

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It's all in the mind - looks really are ultimately defined by personality. And just as well, our looks are constantly changing and if we are to base our self worth on our appearance alone, we would become very insecure indeed. I am not saying looks are unimportant, but for the most part, our personality and self worth are often reflected in our appearance anyway, and even a shy smile can go a long way.
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We are visual beings. Our initial attraction tends to rely on physical attributes. Love can grow from a warm personality. Lets face it you can look like Idris Elba but if your personality is douchey then there is no real love story there.
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Personality because it is the thing you can control. No one can really control how they come into this world but you have full control over how you act and treat people.
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I'd rather have a partner with a good personality. If she is drop dead gorgeous, but dull and stupid, she would drive me crazy.
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One would assume that the plain, even homely, people out there are for all intents and purposes, shit out of luck. If you’re not blessed with Tyson Beckford’s smile, Ryan Gosling’s dreamy eyes and Brad Pitt’s abs, you may as well just hope to find someone who’s willing to put up with you in order to avoid a life of desperate loneliness, right?

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some people that keep saying that personality is much more important is just freaking lazy to take care of their appearance & health .then they keep having vengeance over people that choose people that looks better than them .well ,everyone want the best person to be their lover .it is up to them whether they want to change or choose lazy piglets like them
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Men paid most attention to"personality characteristics" when relationship stability is important, said Dr Burt."This pattern may be indicative of the greater importance of a positive personality for a long-term relationship for both sexes."
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Depends I guess but there's nothing wrong with looking for both.
2 y
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For me it's personality. My interest can and definitely is piqued by somebody who I find attractive but it's not the entire picture. Personality determines whether or not I like somebody.
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Personality by far, but I need to be at least somewhat attracted to someone for a relationship to work out. I can like/be attracted to a lot of traditionally average looking people granted they portray themselves well or with an air of confidence and treat people with kindness.
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A good personality can make"average" looks come across as super attractive.
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I can't be in a relationship with someone I don't like or that I can't talk to. If someone has an amazing personality, I'll be much more lenient on how attractive I find them.
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We always say that the personality is more important than good looks. But The Ugly Truth is At the end of the day, all we care about is looks! No one falls in love with your personality at first sight.
2 y
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Its not this simple. Looks is kind of a pass/fail. I'm either attracted to you or not. If I'm not attracted then personality doesn't really matter. However, when it comes to people who I already find physically attractive personality can completely make or break things.
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Personality is a sustainable reason to like someone. Looks can fade, and yes it could be argued that a person can develop alzheimers. But the interesting thing is that if you loved your partner because of their personality, you’ll stay with them even when you’re old and even if they’re dying or losing their minds, because the connection was deep. A superficial connection will see you leave your partner as soon as their makeup stops working.
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Personality, it never fades looks do! No one will be perfect forever.
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