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How to tell if its lust or love?

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The difference between love and lust:
First sign: It’s love rather than lust is connection.
Second sign: Using “we” language rather than “I” language.
Third sign: Self-disclosure.
Fourth sign: Influence.
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Do you think it's possible to have both? Which do you experience more and why?
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Yes, I think it's definitely possible to have both but I don't think it's possible to have both forever. Lust dies over time so it won't be there forever unlike love.
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I can only trust the article when it says it is possible. It is hard to imagine lust still being there when you're both 70. But, maybe it is.
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Most mature individuals would know if they are feeling love or lust. Some are lucky to have both but if you have to choose, choose love because lust does not last forever.
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Hello good morning
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The information on doing arousal-producing activities together is an eye opener for me. My husband and I both go to the gym but we do it at different schedules. This is making me want to reconsider. Maybe, worth a try since it is from decades of study.
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Hey! :eye_roll:
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Hello good morning

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Good afternoon world.
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Real love is about commitment and communication. These two important components lead to stability within a relationship. Of course, fire can be part of the equation, but when there’s lots of drama, chaos and more emotional gut blows than butterflies, you’re looking at a lustful situation.
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I feel so lusty
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All the time
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